Passion and Discipline: How to Stay Dedicated

While self-reflecting yesterday, I realised that I have long regarded myself as a person driven by passion, but at the same time, I'm one who often shied away from the rigours of discipline. My work, more often than not, flowed to the rhythm of my own clock, at a pace I deemed comfortable.

However, in the relatively recent past, I found myself graced with the presence of two remarkable individuals, whom I am privileged to call my friends. They have, in ways perhaps even unknown to them, ignited within me a newfound commitment to living a life marked by discipline. The reasons for this fresh motivation may elude even my own comprehension, but the transformation is undeniable. Owing to these two people, I'll soon update a blog about Friendships and Life.

Now let's jump to the main topic.

Part 1- Passion: What it is, and What it is Not

I've often pondered upon the true essence of genuine passion. People and even Google confuse "commitment" to be a synonym of "passion". It is one of those topics; one that leads me to consider the prevalence of what some might term "wannabe" enthusiasts/passionate people in our society. At its core, the issue often stems from the inherent inequalities that limit access and opportunity, especially at the grassroots level. For many, the pursuit of their dreams remains a distant echo, a lament whispered in the dinner parties of the later chapters of their lives – "I used to be passionate."

It's remarkably effortless to traverse the realms of imagination, to conjure what might have been. In my own journey as a musician, I encounter individuals considerably senior in years who share their regrets about not being able to chase their musical aspirations due to life's myriad demands. The sentiment is familiar – the allure of the "what-could-have-been" world is undeniably tempting.

Intriguingly, I've found that even within the artistic community, there exist musicians who sometimes yearn for the stability of a 9-to-5 job.

Putting lifestyle first is how you find a job--- not a calling

Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air

It's a reflection of the age-old adage – the grass often appears greener on the other side.

The Glitz and Glamour of Passion

The glitz and glamour of following one's passion often paint an extremely lucrative picture. When others see me immersed in the pursuit of my passion, playing the sitar, they often find it undeniably "cool." It's a term that encapsulates the sense of awe and admiration that can surround those who have chosen a path guided by their artistic calling.

One of the appealing aspects of my profession is the relatively lower stress levels (almost zero) as compared to more conventional jobs. While I work, i.e., when I am playing the sitar and creating music, the process appears effortless, almost transcendent. People find it "cool" that I get to do what I love without the constant grind and stress that often accompanies other careers.

Since long, being an artist has indeed been perceived as "cool." The ability to channel creativity into something beautiful and meaningful resonates deeply with human beings. It's about expressing oneself authentically, embracing individuality, and forging a unique path. Being an artist, whether it's as a musician, painter, or any other form of creative expression, carries an inherent aura of coolness.

Another delightful aspect is the respect and recognition that comes with the territory. When I travel to places where I've performed before, I'm often greeted with warmth and appreciation by those who remember the feeling my music gave them. It's a heartening experience to connect with people who have been touched by my artistry, and it underscores the significance of art in building connections and leaving a lasting impact.

But perhaps one of the coolest moments is stepping onto the stage in front of an audience. The rush of excitement, the anticipation of creating something magical, and the connection forged with the audience are unparalleled. The stage becomes another world in itself, almost like another dimension altogether, where artistry thrives, and the "cool" factor is at its zenith. It's a place where dreams come to life, and the world disappears into the melodies and rhythms woven by the artist.

In essence, the glitz and glamour of following one's passion are not just about surface-level perceptions but about the profound fulfillment that comes from living an authentic and creatively driven life. It's about embracing the "cool" factor that resonates with our generation and many before that, and finding purpose and joy in the artistic journey.

A quote by Fyodor Dostoevsky is very much related to this topic:

Your worst sin is that you have destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing.

The Reality of the Fact

Surely intelligence wasn't enough.

Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air

The path of passion is not always paved with ease, even for those who are privileged. Pursuing one's deepest calling can exact a heavy toll, often depriving individuals of the luxuries that a more conventional path might offer. The sacrifices are extremely real, and often painful, the challenges formidable, and the rewards seldom immediate.

In Indian Classical Music, the waiting period for significant recognition and financial stability can be especially protracted. It's not uncommon for musicians to reach their 50s before they achieve the financial security that their friends in conventional careers might attain by their mid-30s or 40s. The world of classical music, like many other artistic domains, is characterized by its slow and gradual ascent, demanding a wealth of experience and unceasing dedication to reach the pinnacle. Yet, these challenges are only the tip of the iceberg. The journey of following one's passion is often fraught with self-doubt, moments of wavering faith, and the allure of a more comfortable 9-to-5 job. It's easy to question the choices made, especially when the road ahead seems uncertain and the traditional path appears more stable.

The artistic path requires resilience against external pressures and societal expectations. It often means standing firm against well-meaning but cautionary advice that urges a safer, more conventional route. It's a path that necessitates not only honing one's craft but also developing a deep sense of self-belief.

Part 2: Discipline- and how to be Committed, not just Passionate

The Perception Threshold

While pretty flowers are instantly plucked, few people pay attention to the plants with thorns and prickles. But the truth is, great medicines are often made from these.

Elif Shafak, The Forty Rules of Love

Despite the above-mentioned challenges, what keeps individuals on this arduous but deeply rewarding journey is the unwavering commitment to their passion. It's the profound belief that the pursuit of something meaningful and authentic is worth every sacrifice. It's the understanding that the slow climb, the delayed gratification, and the overcoming of self-doubt are all integral to the growth and evolution of the artist.

Indeed, the life of an artist, while often seen as glamorous and enviable, is a journey marked by relentless hard work, perseverance, and countless unseen challenges. When people witness an artist performing on stage, they may be entranced by the beauty of the moment, but what often goes unnoticed are the thousands of hours of diligent practice, the hundreds of rejections, and the many difficult days that precede that mesmerizing performance. Every stroke of a brush, every note on an instrument, every step of a dance, and every word in a novel or poem represents countless hours of practice and refinement.

Rejections are an inherent part of an artist's life. For every opportunity seized, there are numerous auditions, exhibitions, or submissions that end in disappointment. It takes resilience to face rejection and continue pursuing one's passion. The ability to bounce back from setbacks, learn from failures, and persist in the face of adversity is a hallmark of true artists. The creative journey is also riddled with its share of challenging days. Days when inspiration seems elusive, when self-doubt creeps in, and when the creative muse appears distant. These are the days when artists must summon their inner strength and push through, trusting that the creative process has its ebbs and flows. And then there are the sacrifices. Artists often forgo the stability of a 9-5 job or the predictability of a conventional career path. Financial insecurity can be a constant companion. The pursuit of art demands unwavering dedication, often at the expense of more secure and conventional lifestyles.

Discipline, the unwavering commitment to a chosen path, is the cornerstone upon which the life of an artist is built. It is the steady hand that guides them through the turbulent seas of creative endeavours, helping them navigate the challenges and overcome the obstacles that inevitably arise. For an artist, discipline is not merely a choice but a necessity. It's the daily practice that sharpens their skills, refines their technique, and hones their craft. It's the countless hours spent in solitary dedication, whether at an easel, a musical instrument, or a writing desk, that allow their talent to flourish. Discipline is the ally that helps artists push through the self-doubt that can plague even the most talented individuals. It reminds them that creative blocks and moments of frustration are but temporary setbacks, and with perseverance, they can be surmounted. In the face of rejection, discipline is the shield that guards against despair.

Artists often encounter numerous closed doors and unanswered calls. But with discipline, they understand that every rejection is not a verdict on their worth but an opportunity to grow and improve. Perhaps most importantly, discipline nurtures resilience. It teaches artists that setbacks and failures are not reasons to abandon their dreams but challenges to overcome. It instills in them the belief that consistent effort, applied over time, can move mountains.

Be courageous and discipline yourself.

Jalal ad-din Rumi, The Sunrise Ruby

Concluding, when following one's passion, despite its trials and tribulations, it is a demonstration of the indomitable human spirit. It's a journey that requires not only talent but also discipline, not only passion but also patience. Due to this, despite all these challenges, artists persevere, for they are looking at a truth- their truth. In the words of Fyodor Dostoevsky, "Above all, don't lie to yourself".

Artists continue to pour their hearts and souls into their work because their passion is a truth that cannot be denied. And while the rewards may come slowly, they are often sweeter, for they are born from the crucible of truth, dedication, and commitment.